Can a men really be friends with a woman??
I believe that you can be friends with any one even your ex's when your in a committed relationship.
You can only do this by setting boundaries, letting your friends, ex's and genders of the opposite sex know that you value your relationship and commitment to your love one.
How do you show someone that you value your partner?
By always talking about them in a good light,
By ending relationships with people who try to tempt you to cheat, lie and hurt the person your committed to.
By respecting them and communciating with them when someone else, trys to flirt, or talk to you sexually when their not around.
Anything you and your friends talk about should be a conversation you can ?have in front of your partner as well.
Example #1, if your ex said this : " I love you, and sometimes i reminsic about the times we spent together"
a correct response would be "Thank you, that is the past lets leave it there"
a wrong response would be " Really, I love you too, those where great times"
Don't agree with them, keep your feelings neutral. if your current partner heard you say this, that statement alone will make them feel insecure, jealous and make them feel like your in a relationship with them by default.
Example #2, your partner asks his female friend, "You want me to come lay in the bed next to you?"
a correct respond from his female friend would be, "No, you shouldn't joke like that. I don't want your girlfriend to get the wrong impression of me"
a wrong response from the female friend would be, "Yea, you can come lay with me lol"
This shows you partner that there's no boundaries in your friendship. That you will let your friend ?act as a girlfriend to you when she is not around. That you both dream about, holding each other intimately and cuddling. This will make your partner position in your life feel threaten and that you been thinking about your friend sexually.
Example #3, your male friend always calls you boo, baby, honey bun
a correct respond would be, 'to tell them to stop calling you those things"
a wrong response" To call them the names they call you"
The lesson learned here:
What you allow people follow. This means if you let some one flirt with you, talk to you inapproiate, or sexually without correcting it they will think this is okay.
Always acknowledge that you are in a relationship when talking to the opposite sex so they can have a clear view of what is not acceptable and what is
Don't entertain wrongful behavior
Stay neutral and build boundaries.
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